The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
- Carl Jung, Swiss psychologist (1875 - 1961)
This is such a wonderful quote to share today. The minute I read it, I really felt like sharing it. This quote, to me, means that when you found somebody that really has that chemistry that you need in your love life (and what the heck??? in life as a whole!!!), you are inspired to transform into something good and better.
I don't mean that your life may not be great right now, but there's always something missing that can help you to make it even better than what it is right now. You may have a great job, great friends and family, a great enviorment...but maybe, just maybe you may need something extra to have a certain perfection in all that greatness around you.
I recently had a relationship with a young guy. He had great looks and some other nice things but some of his personality traits didn't quite clicked with mine due to different reasons...but, what I'm trying to say with this example, is that sometimes it takes a while to realize that the person you're with doesn't inspire that chemical reaction you may need to transform. Obviously, if I didn't feel that reaction, he wasn't going to feel the same from me. Although he's a nice guy in some ways, the reaction wasn't there and there was no transformation.
I'm hopelesly devoted to finding somebody that may transform me for the better. Somebody I can inspire to be better, too. Somebody I can love, trust, respect, and have great communication. This is a wish I make on this St. Valentine's day ;)